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Diane Rose-Solomon's avatar

So wise and well said. As you know, we adopted a new dog in November. The first three days were ridiculous. The next three weeks were slightly less ridiculous. We're looking forward to the three-month mark. As they say, the three benchmarks for adopted dogs is 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months. We can already see her settling in but we all have a way to go. Yet, every week is a little better and when we look back, our whole experience with her is dramatically better than just a few weeks ago. In our minds, we know we're good pet parents. She knows nothing about that or us. Time, patience, consistency.

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Chloe Ackerman, PsyD (she/her)'s avatar

Cindy! Thank you so much for featuring Dog Lover's Guide! I really appreciate it.

This article is spectacular, and so needed. When I adopted my first pup Sammy, I picked him from his old family up at a park, stayed one night at my boyfriend's house, stayed another night at friend's house, and then finally drove him three hours home to my house. He was SO frightened and overwhelmed. All my pictures from his first few days are of whale eyes and stress yawning. I had no idea what I was doing. If I could go back, I'd take him straight home and follow your article to a T.

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